10 Basic Manners for Kids

1. A child should wait their turn and not interrupt when other people are speaking, no one can be heard if there are too many voices talking at once. Make certain to give your child your attention when you are finished speaking to reinforce the positive behavior of waiting his/her turn. An idea can be: while a child is waiting, hold their hand or put your arm around them to let them know you are aware they are waiting their turn to speak.
2. Name calling, even in "fun," hurts.
3. Always greet someone with a smile when they come over to your house. Depending on your formality, you may ask your child to shake hands with an adult, but it is not necessary to shake hands with another child. A nice gesture of "hello" or "hi" when someone visits makes a guest feel welcome.
4. Say: "Please" and "Thank you" this shows respect and appreciation, in addition, do not forget to say "you're welcome".
5. Clean up! It should not matter if you are at home or a friends house always pick up after yourself.
6. Show good sportsmanship. After playing a game (sports, cards, board game) no matter what the outcome be nice, if you win do not be a "show off" if you loose don't get mad.
7. Take a compliment nicely, if someone praises you say "thank you".
8. Always open doors for others. When going into a building, allow others to go first. When following others into a building, don't let the door slam in the face of those behind, hold the door until the person behind is through. Remember: if someone holds the door for you, don't forget to say "thank you."
9. Exiting and entering elevators: allow those in the elevator to exit first before entering the elevator, don't be the pushy one!.

10. Respect differences, others may do things differently from you. Families or friends have their own traditions, maybe you will learn some thing new!

The Gollatz Cotillion instructs manners to all children in grades third through eighth with events in Southern California. The Fall seasonal instruction takes place in a fun, country club atmosphere. A student that attends the Gollatz Cotillion will be taught: social etiquette, dining etiquette and simple dance steps. The dances instructed are the traditional ballroom dances and contemporary dances. Additional instruction includes: phone etiquette, telephone manners, cell phone etiquette, kids table etiquette, social graces, how to dress / dress to impress, party etiquette, how to be a guest and manners. The skills listed and more will prepare your child for success in social situations and throughout their lives.  

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